Quit your bitching.

Setting the boundary on the B word

Picture this: you, a woman, are having a conversation with a male friend or colleague about another woman, and everything is going well until he casually calls her a bitch. There’s a moment where your brain just stops — it’s the perfect example of when real life could use a record-scratch sound effect. Did he actually just say that?? But you know this moment. At this point it’s familiar. In fact, it’s happened so many times that you feel confident in saying that you’ve prepared yourself for it: training your face to not change, to not…